Daddyhunt Blog

May 24, 2010

Hey guys, we are just about ready to launch the new messaging system and we’d like to give our loyal Members and Supporters a special SNEAK preview!

Before you check it out, here are a few things to keep in mind:

  1. This is a TESTING server so any content you create (messages, unlocks etc.) will be temporary. Your old messages will also be outdated. Any actions you take will not affect your “real” Daddyhunt profile.
  2. Set your ONLINE NOW settings to WORLDWIDE. Otherwise, you may not see all the other members online.
  3. Photos will not appear anywhere on the TESTING site so please don’t be surprised that photos are not showing up. Don’t worry, they will work fine when we finally do launch.
  4. To activate the Sound Alert for new messages, go to your Account/Preferences page and look for the option to activate this feature. Try it out!
  5. Please send lots of emails to people you see on the testing server and ask them to respond back. We need your help to test the system and make sure it works properly. Try moving messages around. In other words, make sure to “bang on the tires” as much as you want.
  6. Let us know if you find any bugs or have any feedback for us. We really want to know what you think and we’re relying on your help to identify any hidden problems before launch. Email beta@daddyhunt.com with any comments.

Thanks again! Click the link below to get your sneak peak of the new Daddyhunt messaging system.

http://staging.daddyhunt.com

Carl

May 20, 2010

Hey guys, thanks for all the great feedback and suggestions on the new site. I'm happy to announce that we are almost ready to launch a number of significant improvements to the Mailbox and messaging system. In addition to a more intuitive interface and navigation, we have resurrected features from the old Daddyhunt. Our Beta users are currently testing the system. We hope to be in a position to launch very soon.

Here are some of the features you will see in the new Mailbox:

  1. A fresh new look and feel
  2. A SOUND alert for new messages
  3. A VISUAL (blinking) alert for new messages
  4. A VIEW HISTORY button to see all prior conversations with members
  5. A checkbox to UNLOCK your photos while sending a message
  6. The ability to permanently save messages (SUPPORTERS 0NLY)
  7. The ability to see who read your messages (SUPPORTERS ONLY)
  8. A "bigger" inbox that stores messages for 90 days instead of 30
    days

Thanks again for your support and patience. We apologize in advance if any of your suggestions did not make it into the launch list.

Best,
Carl and the Daddyhunt Team

May 14, 2010

While I might not spend more then a few seconds thinking about what I wear in the morning, and a few wrinkles in my shirt does not ruin my day, I enjoy looking nice. Now, don't go geting your knickers in a twist because I have a credit for the Tom Ford store for a birthday gift gone wrong that I'm looking forward to using and I stop by the Paul Smith store every fall to see whats new. I still love my boy, my beard and my brew. There nothing wrong with Daddy looking like he just stepped out the pages of a high fashion magazine once in a while is there?

I couldn't help puff up my chest with a little bit of pride when I heard about the Walter Van Beirendonck fashion show. With all the hoopla about fashion these days it is about time I see people like me walking the runway rather then some scawny guy with not a chest hair in sight. Check out the video clips courtesy of DJ Rotten Robbie.

Chime in if you want on the our Weekly Buzz topics and have a great weekend!


May 6, 2010

My name is Nathan Manske and I created the website www.ImFromDriftwood.com. It collects true LGBT stories from all over the world. The stories come from every age, race, sex, culture, community and background. Daddies included.

Lots of things make Daddies hot. Manliness. Brawniness. Sometimes hair and sometimes muscle. But what really makes a Daddy hot is confidence, wisdom, experience and perspective, which usually (though not always) come with age. Doesn't this video story make you look forward to growing gray and wise? Not to mention, it will probably make you want to change your "Looking For" status to "Long-term Relationship." Until you get groped by a hottie, anyway.

Enjoy the video and stay tuned for more!

May 1, 2010

Happy Saturday Men! We're going to start putting together a little review of things we come across as we surf the web each week. As always, feel free to join the conversation.

Daddyhunt is based in the Big Apple and yesterday, St.Vincents Hospital shut its doors after 161 years. St. Vincent's has been an amazing resource in the West Village for gay men, women and people living with HIV and we  always found comfort knowing there was a welcoming, community-based hospital available to us. We are very sad to see the Hospital close its doors.

April 27, 2010

We are happy to announce that we can now help Promoters and Event Planners spread the word via the Daddyhunt Event Listing.

Starting at a very affordable rate of $30 per post, you can reach all the Daddies and Hunters on Daddyhunt and have the chance to gain their support. We welcome all Gay Cultural Events, Nightlife and Benefits that Gay masculine men will enjoy.

With Gay Pride season coming up, don't miss out on the chance to reach out to the Daddyhunt community.

For details, contact us at support@daddyhunt.com.

April 21, 2010

It was around Midnight and aside from a string of dim lights placed equidistant along the path, only the full moon above illuminated the “Landing Strip” that went from the center of the facility up into the darkness where campsites were tucked into every nook along the way. On the gravel dirt path I heard the crunching of heavy boots kicking up dirt and there, in the moonlight, I saw the familiar shine of metal catching the natural light, and the outline of black leather harnesses, masks, and chaps could vaguely be seen in the relative darkness of the night as guys left the party that had just transpired. I got a feeling from this moment, and thought that despite so many of us being under that same moon at that moment, not many were experiencing what I was. It was something private, something special, and something undoubtedly gay. Unbridled gay. And yet what I took away from that moment was the thought… how long is this going to last?

I’m in my early 30’s, so I definitely missed the heydays of leather fetishism, but as I got into my late twenties I met more guys into the leather scene and found it to (mostly) be the opposite of the dark and dangerous lifestyle it claimed to be. Leatherman were some of the nicest guys I came across, and the taboo it held as I came up in the more cocktail-sipping lounges of the early millennium dwindled. But it’s always been fun for me, nothing more than the equal to an outrageous club-kid outfit versus serious fetish. And when I go to a leather event I see that the majority of the guys are older, with a couple younger guys here and there. But recently when a young gay co-worker showed me how he dressed up as “a leather Daddy” for Halloween, complete with fake mustache and a Village Person’s absence of editing (you should always take off the first thing that grabs your eye when you spin around in your chaps girl) I realized… is leather like, over? It’s now an actual COSTUME?

I’ve always been interested in the history of the gay community and leather was my way of connecting with that part of history. Dressing up in leather is absolutely, hands-down gay, and putting on these outfits that harkened back to a different era (and different country and world) made me feel like I was part of the fabric that makes up the gay life continuum. But again, it’s not a fetish, or necessary to me for sex, so should I be surprised that leather continues to be a dying lifestyle? I’m not organizing my own leather parties… but when I had a moment like I did at that all-male campground in rural Pennsylvania, I realized it was something SO gay, and so wonderful, that I wouldn’t want to see it die out as our culture continues to shift and gay becomes more acceptable and less “scary.”

Or is this “death of leather” just a symptom of the cultural tides turning? As we speak up and demand equal rights do we feel that we need to tone down the more extremes of our lifestyle? Young gays aren’t hiding away anymore, and they certainly don’t seem to identify with the leather scene even as much as people in my generation, not to mention the generations that came before me. Or is this turn just another effect of the general apathy of the younger generation? Ultimately I think that we like to compartmentalize our lives as it’s been done by the wider culture for years, but the truth is that gay is, if you can forgive the analogy, a true rainbow of different tastes and interests. I can’t stand musical theater myself, but it’s undoubtedly a touchstone for our community and an important part of gay history. My hope is that the upcoming generation continues to honor the history before them and not turn it into parody, or dismiss it as a relic of a bygone era.

Do you dress in leather? Do you find it to be increasingly less socially acceptable?

April 16, 2010

Flexibility is an indispensable component of overall health and fitness. In my "Fitness Over 40 FAQ" piece, a DH member reminded me that flexibility training is sometimes just as essential as resistance and cardio training. Flexibility, however, is greatly misunderstood, and the science regarding stretching, still very controversial. So how important is flexibility training?

Flexibility training can improve circulation, reduce stress and increase range of motion, which has a significant impact on balance, a major concern as we reach into our 40-plus years. In fact, 5-percent of men die from accidental falls, and 85-percent of those men are 65 and older, according to the Center for Disease Control. Circulation and stress are also a vital concern as we make our way over the proverbial hill, since a man aged 50-64 is ten times more likely to suffer a fatal stroke or attack than younger men, reports the American Medical Association. But is the "rumor" that stretching is tantamount to true fitness accurate?

Can flexibility really reduce injury and accelerate recovery?

This is a controversial issue in the fitness realm; and significant flexibility training can even be detrimental, depending on one's goals. For example, greater flexibility may impair performance in sports that do not require a high degree of flexibility such as running. Runners with less flexibility are actually more efficient at running (Jones 2002). People who participate in activities that require more than average flexibility (eg: gymnasts, dancers, figure skaters) may still find stretching beneficial to their performance.

Additionally, evidence that stretching prevents injury or speeds recovery seems to be almost exclusively anecdotal and not scientific. It seems more flexible individuals do not necessarily have less incidence of injury (Gleim 1997). In some cases those with greater flexibility may actually experience more injury, particularly if the excessive flexibility compromises joint integrity (Surberg 1983; Jones 1997).

So how much should we really stretch, then?

The amount of stretching one should do is disarmingly unknown. The American College of Sports Medicine recommends flexibility training a minimum 2 days per week holding each stretch for 10 to 30 seconds to the extent of mild discomfort; 3 to 4 repetitions per stretch. This is a nominal amount compared to recommendations for resistance exercise (to combat osteoporosis and arthritis) and endurance training (to prevent cardiopulmonary disease).

In the end, stretching is important to over health, but don't get misled. It's not a magical elixir. Keep your weight reasonable, perform cardio to 3-5 times per week and a full body stretch routine at least at 2 times per week for minimum balance.

Happy stretching!

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Duke Greenhill is a certified personal trainer, professional fitness model and widely published health and fitness author in New York.  He is available for private training sessions in Manhattan, or for remote consultations and program design across the globe.  To learn more about his training or modeling services, feel free to visit http://FitCreator.blogspot.com or http://www.DukeGreenhill.com.

April 13, 2010

This month, our very own Big Daddy and DH Founder was selected for the Advocate's prestigious "Forty Under 40" issue, an annual list of gay activists, artists and leaders making a difference. Carl is featured with City Council Member Robert Garcia, the lead singer of the Scissors Sisters, Jake Shears and "Biggest Loser" hot-trainer-from-hell, Jillian Michaels - along with 36 other out-and-proud young men and women working to mold our world for the better.

Advocate Forty Over 40

Carl Sandler
38 / New York City
Founder, DaddyHunt.com

Its name may seem salacious, but Carl Sandler says his five-year-old dating website, DaddyHunt.com, is tamer than one might expect. “The whole idea of being a ‘daddy’ is owning your age. It’s a playful use of the word rather than some old-school concept,” he says, alluding to a connotation that means something akin to silver fox. Averaging a quarter million unique visitors a month, DaddyHunt is not for the money-hungry and their older admirers, Sandler says, but rather anyone who values maturity over abdominals. That definition includes younger guys seeking older men, older men seeking younger men, and the over-40 set looking for partners their own age. “My generation needs a place online that isn’t just about hooking up,” he says. So, is there a definitive age when a man crosses over from “hunter” to “daddy”? “I’m not a person fixated on a certain role,” Sandler says. He’s looking for a boyfriend too, and all ages are welcome.

Click here to read the full article.

April 10, 2010
Good times at WOOF NYC

Mike Dreyden and his buddies know how to throw a party and Daddyhunt was part of the fun. Check out all these studs sporting their Daddyhunt t-shirts!

WOOF NYC is a weekly must at View Bar here in the Big Apple. It is the perfect crowd for Daddies and Hunters on Monday nights. Stop by for a beer and tell them Daddyhunt sent you.

Good times at WOOF NYC 3