meabear

Daddy, 60 years old

Location

: San Francisco, CA, United States

Relationship Status

: Single
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I'm Michael ~ 55, salt and pepper everywhere, blue / gray eyes, 5'11" (180 cm), 240 (108 kg), other details on request.

I value honesty and integrity....
A charitable heart is important....
Liars and cheats will not be tolerated....
I like that I can choose my family....
Confidence is not arrogance....at least not 100% of the time....
A little cynicism shows wisdom....

Music lifts my soul....art reveals the soul....
I love to sail....I like cooking for friends....no crowd too large....
Travel is an important way to keep learning....
I pay attention to the "care and feeding" of many things in my life....I dabble in writing and painting....I've hired a personal trainer....I've recently started to hike....the scenery is amazing!
Sex is a great part of my life!....I'm about ready for a companion....we will not be buying furniture together....I am a daddy; I am a bear; I am a daddy polar bear....according to cubs, chasers, and admirers....there are many types of men that interest me....I mostly date younger men....and would also like to date men closer to my age....

I like doing the New York Times crossword puzzle in ink....I am best at math-oriented computer games as opposed to wars....I hate war!....I respect our men and women in uniform!....the "in memoriam" part of ABC's "This Week" is hard on me....

I am a "roadie" on the AIDS Ride from SF to LA every summer....I am in awe every mile of it! I used to earn a living in financial services....and got all my joy from my volunteer work in human/social services, AIDS, and gay civil rights work....now I earn a modest living doing what I think really matters ~ providing emergency financial assistance to people who are disabled by AIDS or in active treatment for breast cancer....I participate in a global clinical trial for HIV negative men testing the efficacy of Truvada as a prophylaxis against HIV transmission....I am tested for HIV / STDs every month....the hard jobs make us stronger....I will fight against AIDS for the rest of my life....

I have had many 'friends' and know I can count on about 8 of them to come to my aid without fail....I gave my heart to someone once and he abused it badly....I know what it is like to be madly in love and I want that again....I am naturally monogamous when I am madly in love....I don't want anyone else....if you draw a line in the sand about monogamy, you are most likely setting yourself up to be deceived....

I love my six gay / straight nieces and nephews!....I need lesbians in my life....as well as academics, straight folks, and artists....dogs are welcome!....a glass of wine is a wonderful thing....a bottle....well, even better!....I don't drink 'well' liquor....or Jaegermeister....bleah!...smile wrinkles are better than frown wrinkles....I've never sweated a birthday....I don't desire any mulligans in my life....I don't fear death....

There are very few absolutes in the world....a fair amount of gray between black and white....I despise racism, homophobia, ageism, misogyny, and xenophobia!....It's okay if you smoke but I likely won't kiss you....kissing is key!....I live in a world-class city that runs a tiny little railroad (SF MUNI).

I have been privileged to sing at Carnegie Hall, Church of St. John the Divine, Washington National Cathedral, Kennedy Center, Disneyworld, Teatro Colon in Buenos Aires, and Teatro Municipal in Rio de Janeiro....and in my shower....I have sung as an out gay man in tribute to Elizabeth Taylor and James Levine in the presence of the President and Vice President of the United States....I have attended one "State of the Union Address"....I was a Congressional Intern who escaped being 'diddled' by Congressmen....I come from a long line of Republican activists....I am a liberal Democrat!....

Yosemite is amazing!....as are the pyramids at Giza and the Grand Canyon!....vanilla ice cream....black coffee....Caribbean sunsets....46' catamarans....Duke University....plantation living....all vineyards....Frank Lloyd Wright and Julia Morgan....and Maya Lin....fields of lavender and sunflowers....sunrise over the Atlantic, sunset over the Pacific....

Men who are smart, evolved, open-minded, and generous....
Men who have an artistic / creative bent....
Men who do not live rigidly....
Men who give as good as they get....
Men who are rarely jealous....
Men who can open their soul....

The time for cookies is when cookies are passed!
"Barn's burnt down -- now, I can see the moon" - Masahide, a 17th century poet and samurai warrior.
Never, ever, postpone joy!

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